Nursing the body and soul of our friend: the horse, part 1
Enjoy the challenge
When the dressage or jumping `bug’ has settled nicely under our skin, we can’t wait to be able to do that pirouette or have the fastest time around our first jump-of. Soon we will find out we have entered the world of one of the most time consuming and often frustrating hobby’s, possible. Time consuming: yes, but frustrating: no. Replace the word frustrating with the word challenge and that will redefine your mental approach. Consider it a little miracle every time it works and let your horse know how much you value his desire to try and please you. Only then the much desired partnership will flourish.
If horses could say `ouch’ we would be ashamed of ourselves. Also, if our horse was a bicycle it would probably fall over.
This obviously needs explaining. First the `ouch’ bit. Nearly every rider has, at some point during his or her career, dealt with, what seemed to be, a disobedient horse. Of course there are horses with very little or no work ethic. However, unfortunately, most horses are the victim of their misunderstanding riders who are desperately and endlessly repeating all kinds of exercises, which put an enormous amount of unnecessary strain on body and soul of our beloved animal. Especially at the time of access to the internet and all kinds of DVD’s available it makes so much more sense to not do all that unnecessary mileage, but instead first learn by watching capable and experienced riders perform all those beautiful movements or jump those tricky grids the correct way. A doctor in training will have to watch his mentor many times before he can take the scalpel in his own hand in order to take your appendix out.
Professional trainers are the first ones to admit that they improved also their own skills and not just those of their pupils because they are continually watching and therefore learning.
It is a shame that so much horse `disobedience’ is interpreted as not genuine behaviour with all measures taken. We have to accept that by limiting our own learning process we limit the fun we are meant to have with our horse, and sometimes even their lifespan.
Preparation for tomorrow
Part of the problem is of course our own insecurity during the learning process of horse training. It is a fine line between blaming yourself and doing something positive about it and getting frustrated (ego? What ego!). When this situation occurs it really works to make halt, take a deep breath, and walk on a long rein while thinking about where it went wrong, which more often than not will give the answer why it went wrong. If it can’t be solved today, think of something you can do well, together, and finish up on that. Anything better than a last minute fight which ruins the whole session. Dr. Reiner Klimke, possibly our best dressage rider, ever, made some fantastic training video’s in the eighties. After every single session he finished by saying: `And that... was a good preparation for tomorrow.’
It is extremely important for neither you or your horse to be out of your comfort zone for too long. On the other hand, if you never push yourself you will not improve. By spending the time with your horse listening and trying to understand its behaviour, rather than imposing unnecessary pressure you will learn to understand how long your horse can be out of its comfort zone without panicking. As soon as you have learnt that, you will know for how long and how much pressure you can put on with a productive result.
This is really all about the horse learning to trust submission. Submission is scary when, as a horse, you feel you can not trust and depend on your rider to keep you safe. This is when ill behaviour, which generally starts with looking for ghosts outside the arena, begins. If not taken seriously this can turn into napping, rearing, you name it. And there you have the ring sour horse.
Rather sow the seed than brainwash
Muscle memory is a word that pops up everywhere, these days. Whether learning a new song at choir practice or having treatment after an injury. Also horses have muscle memory .
It is important to realize when your horse is secure at the level you are working at, the time has come to give him a new little challenge. Nothing worse than a bored horse as impulse disappears or, just as with too much submission, shying occurs, depending on your horse’s character.
Often, though, the tendency is to wait too long with something new. However, once brave enough to take that little step into the deep, the only way forward seems to be endless repetition until both rider and horse are overheated and exhausted . Recognize yourself? Don’t worry, it’s never too late to change.
When the time has come for something new, plan it at the end of a shortish but productive session so the horse is mentally in a good place. Not too tired and able to absorb a little more. Think through the process of how to approach your horse with the new exercise, not just from the technical point of view, but also in a way that suits its character best. Setting it up so the horse becomes interested rather than scared out of its wits is the road to success. It does not matter if initially the exercise is not executed to perfection: just sow the seed, and after one or two attempts it is time for both of you to leave it be and think about it. For him it means that next time he will recognize the exercise without already having learnt to hate it. For you, if it went well, that glorious feeling of achievement and if it didn’t go so well time to work through your frustrations without your horse and think how to do it differently next time.
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Her love for horses together with her dedication made her into the trainer and dressage rider she is, today. She is versatile and inventive and likes a challenge; whether it is a technical training question, a confidence issue or a problem involving the management of the horse or pony.
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